Received a letter today from my uncle Albert (Ap) whom I have not had contact with in about 30 years. Him and my uncle Anton were my favourite uncles on dad's side.
Some time ago, when I started working on the family genealogy, I thought I'd write him and see what happens. He expressed surprise at receiving my letter, and honestly, he was sending Christmas cards that we were ignoring. Some of that was due to family friction passed on by my parents. At the time, I had no interest in trying to figure out who was right and who was wrong, so we just dropped communication.
Ap is only 9 years older than I am, so I think we can pick up communication, despite that I disagree with his sexual orientation. But as he said, he and Henk have been together 25 years, although not married, which is a better record than some regular relationships.
I am looking forward to picking up contact again, and expect new opportunities for sharing information, experiences, and family information.
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